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Couples & relationships

Relationships today are one of the most tangled and sought-after topics. The old scripts are fading and we're only starting to build new ones, so couples carry ever more expectations and grievances. In a crisis it often feels like “this just isn't my person.” I work with couples and one-on-one — to come through the crisis well, or to end the relationship gracefully and find a new partner.

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What's troubling you?

Tap the question that resonates — I'll tell you how I can help.

“I want to sort out a difficult relationship with my partner” +
I'll help you find the real causes of conflict and hurt, clarify mutual expectations, and learn to voice wishes instead of grievances — and to choose happiness over being right.
“I'm thinking about divorce” +
I'll help you decide by weighing both paths — staying or parting — cope with the emotions, and work out what comes next.
“I've just divorced” +
I'll help with the emotional ending, grieving, self-esteem, and dealing with an ex about children, matters and money.
“I'm looking for a new partner and want to avoid past mistakes” +
I'll help you clarify what to look for and how to present yourself, build your personal “red flags” list, and let go of your own destructive patterns.
“I'm building a step-family — and it's all complicated” +
I'll help you untangle the web of relationships, clarify expectations, and make this reality simpler and happier.